A Few Words About Me…

In today’s society, the challenges in relationships and family life are often much more complex than they might first appear. Many people think that gender-related challenges stem primarily from conflicts between men and women, but the reality is more nuanced. In my experience, it is not only men who can create difficulties; some women, too, can approach relationships or family life in ways that prioritize their own comfort over true partnership. This is not about seeing men solely as providers; rather, it’s about situations where emotional responsibility and mutual effort are not equally shared. Such dynamics can lead to hidden tensions that affect both partners over time.

Throughout my life, I’ve encountered two main types of men. The first group includes those who don’t particularly care about a woman’s career or personal growth because they themselves are not actively contributing to the development of the relationship. They may not have ill intentions, but their passivity and lack of engagement often make it difficult for a relationship to flourish.

The second group consists of what I call the “primordial fathers”—men who hold onto traditional masculine roles but often struggle to navigate society because their behaviors are not supportive or well-aligned with modern expectations. These men may react with frustration or aggression and frequently feel caught between societal expectations and reality. While they can appear as negative examples, they are important to understand: like everyone else, they want to give and receive value, but without guidance or self-awareness, they can struggle to find their place in relationships and society.

As a Doctor of Philosophy, my goal is to help people navigate this complex landscape. I believe that every individual, whether man or woman, has the ability to find their path and create balanced, fulfilling relationships. This doesn’t mean that every relationship will be perfect, but it does mean that everyone can learn tools for communication, empathy, and self-reflection—tools that allow relationships to grow and thrive over the long term.

Many ask me what the key to a successful relationship is in today’s world, where expectations and realities often conflict. In my view, the foundation is always respect and honest communication. When both partners honor each other’s goals, ambitions, and feelings, a relationship has a real chance to thrive. Equally important is personal responsibility: each person must take ownership of their life while being open to the support and collaboration of their partner. This mutual support is what creates true equality, the cornerstone of modern relationships.

Women’s self-realization is a particularly important area I focus on. Today, women have many opportunities—whether in their careers, education, or personal development. However, not all men are able to recognize or support these goals. My work helps women understand their own value and learn how to cultivate relationships where both career and family can coexist without compromising personal ambitions.

Similarly, men need to reconsider and redefine their roles. Many men struggle to balance traditional expectations with modern societal norms. I help them recognize their strengths and contribute constructively to their families and relationships. Practicing empathy, attentiveness, and responsibility not only strengthens relationships but also builds self-esteem and personal growth.

From my perspective, the key to every relationship is finding balance. This balance is not static; it shifts with life circumstances and personal growth. The ability to adapt, reflect on oneself, and stay open to change is essential for relationships to flourish rather than stagnate in conflict or misunderstanding.

Ultimately, every individual—man or woman—has the potential to create valuable, supportive, and loving connections. My role is to help people recognize patterns, navigate challenges, and acquire the tools that allow them to find their place. Whether it’s related to career, family, personal growth, or emotional support, the goal is the same: a balanced, healthy, and harmonious life.

I believe that even amid societal change, it is possible to create and maintain meaningful value. Practicing self-awareness, responsibility, and loving communication benefits not only relationships but also personal growth. Through these practices, individuals learn to be empathetic, conscious, and supportive partners while preserving their own identity and goals.

I encourage everyone—both women and men—to examine their relationships, discover their strengths and opportunities for growth, and strive to let love, respect, and support guide their everyday decisions. Even in today’s challenging world, a meaningful, balanced, and happy life is achievable when awareness and self-reflection become part of daily living.

With guidance, reflection, and conscious effort, we can all develop the tools needed to nurture relationships that are not only emotionally fulfilling but also supportive of personal and professional aspirations. By understanding ourselves and each other, we create a foundation for relationships that endure and enrich our lives.